Lady Zamar had an alarming Twitter meltdown on Sunday evening after her comments about men drew the ire of social media. Picture: Instagram
Lady Zamar had an alarming Twitter meltdown on Sunday evening after her comments about men drew the ire of social media.
Zamar’s tweets reignited the fury of tweeps who have long accused the “Collide” hitmaker of falsely accusing afropop star Sjava of sexual assault.
It all started when the 36-year-old shared her views on what a man’s “job” is in a relationship.
“Your job as a man is to make sure she never needs another man again,” she tweeted. She went on to add, “Your ‘minimum level of unhappiness’ is their ‘maximum effort in the relationship’ for so many men.”
your job as a man is to make sure she never needs another man again
— Lady Zamar (@Lady_Zamar) July 16, 2023
Ever the opportunist, Nota chimed in shortly after: “Men are simple, just praise the ones making a good effort & say nothing of those that aren’t… Women give dogs so much attention then act surprise when they attract men that act like them!”
Men are simple, just praise the ones making a good effort & say nothing of those that aren’t… Women give dogs so much attention then act surprise when they attract men that act like them!
— MORAL Authority (@lavidaNOTA) July 16, 2023
After a barrage of hateful comments flooded in, Zamar went quiet before returning to share a lengthy post a few hours later, “Why do you guys hate me so much? How have I become such an easy target for you guys?”
“you guys have no idea how you break a person. I can’t move on from your assumptions of what happened to me… you’ve made your opinions my truth… what’s the end goal of all this hate and why are you so determined to believe a story that’s not even full or mine?”
She added that when she tries to tell her truth, people don’t want to hear it and when she tries to move on, people are quick to attack her. “How am I supposed to exist in this space?”
“After you’ve commented on my stuff and said the most vile and evil tweets, what do you hope to achieve with it… what action would satisfy you guys?”
She went on to ask if she could move on or if she should keep on apologising for trying her “absolute best to move on”.
She then ended her tweet with a harrowing question before reposting a screenshot of a tweep suggesting that she hang herself. “Do you want me to kill myself, do you want me to die, be murdered, go to jail to make you guys happy?”
why do you guys hate me so much? how have i become such an easy target for you guys?
— Lady Zamar (@Lady_Zamar) July 16, 2023
you guys don’t know me or my full story and you don’t know why i’ve kept quiet for such a long time…you guys have no idea how you break a person.
i can’t move on from your assumptions of what…